Sunday, May 21, 2006
Some relationships are very fragile.
some are strong..
some people say relationships.. ties are made in heaven..
long before u met the person..
some pple say.. de relationships u haf wif pple now..
are bondings from your past life..
like.. parents and child.. is that de parent owes the child something..
so now nid to take care of the child to repay de debt of de past..
dunoe is dat true..
den wad abt fren?
do we owe each other something?
den bf/gf lei??
i tink no matter who owes who..
relationships now are in our hands..
we can choose de path we want to take..
we can also choose de frens we want to make..
pple of de same character will cum tgt and be frens..
bt usuallie de best pal in life..
will be some1 dat is somewat different in character..
i tink mayb dats wad compliments each other..
like 1 gang n 1 rou lydat..
de key in a perfect relationship is not to find the perfect partner..
bt to find someone.. n accept them for hu dey are..
flaws and all..
finding de right frens are important..
u must find some1 that understand u..
n accept u for hu u are..
=)
different pple haf different lifestyle n tink differently..
de tings dey do. n methods are oso different..
circumstances are different makes de 'li chang' different too..
i tink the choice of words we use sometimes is very impt..
although de 'chu fa dian' is right..
de 'yu qi' aka attitude we use is wrong..
pple interprete wrongly.. jiu die le..
we must use our heart to gan jue everything..
put ourselves in each other shoes..
understand what de other party is going thru..
..
abit boring history of my past..
seeing mr yl makes mi tink of my long lost frens..
sad dat we nv contact le..
hmm... in lower pri..
used to haf a bunch of frens..
namely weiting, kelly, wanying dey all bah..
dun quite rmb every1..
haix..
den in upper pri..
i sort of have 2 different cliques..
1 - wanying yvonne dey all..
den 2 - louisa siew wai dey all..
de 2 grps..
character is sort of different bah..
den dey like nt reallie he de lai..
sometimes i feel more com wif grp 1.
sometimes grp 2..
den i dunoe dey dun he de lai is coz of mi??
or i tink too highly of myself le..
its jux becoz of deir character diff?
i dunoe..
it jux saddens miee that my good frens cannot be tgt..
like when im at grp1 ..
grp 2 pple are nt present..
like cant be a big happie family..
y am i in de middle..?
am i asking too much?
haix..
same goes for my sec skool..
haix..
dun elaborate le..
so long winded..
no mood to continue le..